For those of you with a "warm fuzzies" feeling towards game-playing, avert your eyes:
Games are easy for me. All of them. Any of them. Not in the sense that I easily learn to play them - anyone can do that. When I say "I learn to play them", I mean successfully, to play with clear superiority, with a real win. The overwhelming majority of people think playing a game is only about taking part and following the rules. But this way you can only win by accident. Those people are fools. Real players, when they learn a new game, take apart its nuts and bolts in the very first games, get to know its entire internal workings, and when they start playing properly, they can extract the maximum from any situation that occurs in the game. (Anatoly Karpov, cited in Genna Sosonko, "The Lady is a Champ", New in Chess 2006/2, p. 72.)
In the competitive sphere, there's a line between doing one's best and being a predator, and my view is that one should avoid the latter side of the line. I'd love to have Karpov's skill, but not if it comes at the cost of a contempt for most of humanity.
That point aside, I think Karpov's comment about taking apart a game's nuts and bolts is a wise one. Don't just grope around, and don't look for tricks and techniques. Learn the fundamentals: how pawn structures work, the elements of the game (time, space, force, etc.), basic endgames and tactics, what pieces work best together and how, and so on. In short, put a framework on your learning - in whatever realm - and you'll speed up your learning dramatically.
But do so without becoming feral, please.