Whatever the case, I'm not enjoying the attention, as a steady stream of solicitors, often of truly awful sites, have come knocking on my mailbox. So in case anyone reading this is preparing to request that I mention your website or add it to my blogroll, here are the rules.
First, if you haven't already linked to my site, don't bother. It's not that I care if you link to me - it's your site, and you're welcome to link as you please. Rather, it's a matter of showing Kantian respect: I'm not interested in being treated merely as a means.
Second, if you're selling something, don't bother, unless there's a great deal of meaningful, free value on your site. (Examples are ChessBase, TWIC, and the Chess Cafe.) There's so much great free info on the web that with very rare exceptions, making anyone pay for chess information unless you're an IM or higher is completely ridiculous. I'm in this for the love of the game, not to make a buck. (I don't get "kickbacks" from Chess Today or ChessBase, and even if I did, they would have to be colossal to compensate the time I've put into the blog the past several years.)
Third, if your site features racy material, fuhgedaboutit. We keep things family-friendly here.
Fourth, what I am happy and eager to mention are quality blogs, local chess club sites, and sites dedicated to particular sub-topics like correspondence chess, chess problems/studies, opening forums, chess history, etc. (Note: rule #1 mainly applies here to bloggers looking for me to promote their sites.)
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I thought about that, and am still contemplating what to do about it. There are three possibilities that come to mind. First, whenever someone writes me, I can fire off a quick response pointing them to the post's permalink. Second, I could return it every now and then to the front page. And third, I could post something in big letters on the sidebar. We'll see!